Pre-Hurricane Nap (looking towards his sister)
Pre-Hurricane Nap (Lulu with her baby)
Us carnivores take our grill very seriously!!
Wednesday, August 31
{Blog Series - KY Intimacy Challenge Day 2}
Day Two: It's Not Just About Sex
Wait...come again (no pun intended)...it isn't?!
No...apparently not!
It is believed that each couple should have five positive interactions for every negative one. Hmm...well, it is a darn good thing that no one is keeping a count of this because I have a strange feeling that ours would end up being the complete opposite.
Don't get me wrong, I love my husband - there are just a whole host of things that prevent us from being as affectionate as we would like to be.
Exercise #1: Day
So, today I pulled out my journal (that I was supplied with) and tried to write down every interaction between The Man and I during the day. I realized that we don't have a reserve of positive interactions - matter of fact, we barely made it even when compared to our negative ones. At times, thanks to an overabundance of technology in our house, it does seem like we are living in completely different worlds - even when we are right next to each other. While we do say "I love you" all the time, text back and forth throughout the day, and we always try to do chores together...we don't really get the chance to eat meals together, go on vacation (who has the money), we've been on MAYBE 2 date nights since we got married and talking about our days usually turns into us snoring on the couch.
Exercise #2: Night
The Man didn't have to go to work today (...and the peasants rejoice - yay!) so we got to spend more time together than normal! It is always a good day/night when we actually get extra cuddle time.The main point of the night-time exercise was to create an excess of positive interactions. When it was finally time for bed, I went to kiss The Man - as I usually do - and I kept my eyes open.
Can you say AWKWARD?!
I know it shouldn't be, but I still don't find myself as attractive as I used to be...so it is hard for me to think that anyone else could think I was attractive.
The Man just thought I'd forgotten what I was going to do next...so I kept kissing him until I remembered.
Ugh!
Mommy never wins!
So, anykissings, there we were...kissing...and staring at each other...and we started laughing. I don't mean just giggles, but full fledged belly laughs. It seems as though kissing is funny...who knew?! I was so afraid that the kids were going to wake up - it was that loud, people!!
After night #2, we definitely have a surplus of positive interactions!
Commence visuals ;)
I wrote this posting while participating in a blog campaign on behalf of K-Y® Brand and also received product samples to help facilitate my review.
Wait...come again (no pun intended)...it isn't?!
No...apparently not!
It is believed that each couple should have five positive interactions for every negative one. Hmm...well, it is a darn good thing that no one is keeping a count of this because I have a strange feeling that ours would end up being the complete opposite.
Don't get me wrong, I love my husband - there are just a whole host of things that prevent us from being as affectionate as we would like to be.
Exercise #1: Day
So, today I pulled out my journal (that I was supplied with) and tried to write down every interaction between The Man and I during the day. I realized that we don't have a reserve of positive interactions - matter of fact, we barely made it even when compared to our negative ones. At times, thanks to an overabundance of technology in our house, it does seem like we are living in completely different worlds - even when we are right next to each other. While we do say "I love you" all the time, text back and forth throughout the day, and we always try to do chores together...we don't really get the chance to eat meals together, go on vacation (who has the money), we've been on MAYBE 2 date nights since we got married and talking about our days usually turns into us snoring on the couch.
Exercise #2: Night
The Man didn't have to go to work today (...and the peasants rejoice - yay!) so we got to spend more time together than normal! It is always a good day/night when we actually get extra cuddle time.The main point of the night-time exercise was to create an excess of positive interactions. When it was finally time for bed, I went to kiss The Man - as I usually do - and I kept my eyes open.
Can you say AWKWARD?!
I know it shouldn't be, but I still don't find myself as attractive as I used to be...so it is hard for me to think that anyone else could think I was attractive.
The Man just thought I'd forgotten what I was going to do next...so I kept kissing him until I remembered.
Ugh!
Mommy never wins!
So, anykissings, there we were...kissing...and staring at each other...and we started laughing. I don't mean just giggles, but full fledged belly laughs. It seems as though kissing is funny...who knew?! I was so afraid that the kids were going to wake up - it was that loud, people!!
After night #2, we definitely have a surplus of positive interactions!
Commence visuals ;)
I wrote this posting while participating in a blog campaign on behalf of K-Y® Brand and also received product samples to help facilitate my review.
Tuesday, August 30
{Blog Series - The Zone Diet Introduction}
I love getting packages in the mail...as if there is any other way to get packages...but I digress!
You can imagine my excitement (seriously, like a kid at Christmas) when I found THIS on my doorstep:
As some of you might know, my struggle with these last few (okay, 25) baby fat pounds are really getting to me. I have tried A LOT of different diets, but nothing has worked out yet. So, I jumped at the chance to do a review for Dr. Sears' Zone Diet!
I was a little skeptical when first reading the information on their website...the main reason being I can eat bread. Bread has been my enemy (along with pasta and sugar) because I know it will cause more weight gain than loss. After reading about their patented baking technology, I decided that this could be just the thing I need to get my weight back to normal.
The best part about the not-diet diet is that I can replace the current foods I would eat - pasta, rolls, bagels, cookies, croutons, pizza crust and flat bread - with the specially made Zone items and still eat what I would normally. Okay, so maybe I didn't limit myself to only 1 oz. of meat in my sandwich, but I could definitely try.
The ZoneFast Weight Loss Program includes breakfasts, lunches, snacks and dinners. There is a meal planner, suggested recipes and I also get access to a Zone Coach who is always available by phone to help me with the process. This box is the first week in the two week series.
Seriously, if everything in the box looks as good as this chocolate chunk cookie...I think I'm good to go!
I'm excited to see how this goes...wish me luck!!
You can imagine my excitement (seriously, like a kid at Christmas) when I found THIS on my doorstep:
As some of you might know, my struggle with these last few (okay, 25) baby fat pounds are really getting to me. I have tried A LOT of different diets, but nothing has worked out yet. So, I jumped at the chance to do a review for Dr. Sears' Zone Diet!
I was a little skeptical when first reading the information on their website...the main reason being I can eat bread. Bread has been my enemy (along with pasta and sugar) because I know it will cause more weight gain than loss. After reading about their patented baking technology, I decided that this could be just the thing I need to get my weight back to normal.
The best part about the not-diet diet is that I can replace the current foods I would eat - pasta, rolls, bagels, cookies, croutons, pizza crust and flat bread - with the specially made Zone items and still eat what I would normally. Okay, so maybe I didn't limit myself to only 1 oz. of meat in my sandwich, but I could definitely try.
The ZoneFast Weight Loss Program includes breakfasts, lunches, snacks and dinners. There is a meal planner, suggested recipes and I also get access to a Zone Coach who is always available by phone to help me with the process. This box is the first week in the two week series.
Seriously, if everything in the box looks as good as this chocolate chunk cookie...I think I'm good to go!
I'm excited to see how this goes...wish me luck!!
{Blog Series - KY Intimacy Challenge Day 1}
Day One: Love Nest
I must admit - The Man and I have stayed at local hotels a few times just to get away from the stress of being at home. Being in the event industry, it has always been easy for me to get less expensive hotel rooms. We've had room service bring us champagne (even though I don't drink the stuff), pushed each other towards the bed after showering and not given a care about anyone in the rooms around us.
Those. Moments. Were. Awesome.
Then we come home and reality strikes...
dirty clothes on the floor, laundry not folded, dishes stacked in the sink, bathrooms begging for a good cleaning and a child gripping for dear life on each leg...
It doesn't bode well for a healthy sex-life.
It might not mean much to the men out there, but women get stressed when all we see are chores at every corner of the home. Stress leads to more stress. More stress leads to being tired. Being tired = no sex. That equation is NEVER a good thing.
Exercise #1 - Day
The point of Day 1 is to revamp your love nest to make it more appealing. As much as I would LOVE for it to look like this - it just isn't in the cards:
So, I had to make do with what we've got...I did so much laundry it would choke a horse, but it needed to get done anyway. I put away the clutter, vacuumed the floor, dusted the dressers, hung new curtains (that The Man swore he'd get done...3 months ago) and moved all the water glasses to the kitchen sink.
It was nice to see the floor for once.
We have this set of sheets that we bought when we first got married. I thought they were fun because they have a black playboy logo on the corners of the pillow cases and The Man always wanted a set of silk sheets. We don't use them very often - of at all - because if you aren't careful with silk...you tend to go flying across the room (funny, but not safe)!
I decided to take the risk and change the sheets.
In addition, I placed a few candles throughout the room and turned the TV box to one of those romantic music channels, but turned the TV off (so there was no extra light coming from the TV).
Exercise #2 - Night
I have to admit, those slight changes definitely put a pep in my step and I really couldn't wait for The Man to get home. Once he did, we kissed the kids before putting them to bed and I tied a shirt around his eyes so he couldn't see. I sent him to the shower and I changed into something more "comfortable" (I don't know why they always say that in the movies...there is nothing "comfortable" about any lingerie I've ever worn...ever)
Regardless of comfort or not, the new mood in the room changed us both. It made us WANT to relax with each other again and we were able to connect on another level.
Until it came to the after-sex cuddling part.
Apparently the silk sheets were not a good idea...I know, because I AM the one who ended up on the floor...fail.
Who thought 2 people could move around SO much and be okay - but the minute I try to fix my pillow I go FLYING (yes, I was in the air) to the floor?! Not this girl!
In the end, we enjoyed each others company AND a laugh - even if it was at my expense.
**Want to see where this all began? Go to the Intro and read more**
I wrote this posting while participating in a blog campaign on behalf of K-Y® Brand and also received product samples to help facilitate my review.
I must admit - The Man and I have stayed at local hotels a few times just to get away from the stress of being at home. Being in the event industry, it has always been easy for me to get less expensive hotel rooms. We've had room service bring us champagne (even though I don't drink the stuff), pushed each other towards the bed after showering and not given a care about anyone in the rooms around us.
Those. Moments. Were. Awesome.
Then we come home and reality strikes...
dirty clothes on the floor, laundry not folded, dishes stacked in the sink, bathrooms begging for a good cleaning and a child gripping for dear life on each leg...
It doesn't bode well for a healthy sex-life.
It might not mean much to the men out there, but women get stressed when all we see are chores at every corner of the home. Stress leads to more stress. More stress leads to being tired. Being tired = no sex. That equation is NEVER a good thing.
Exercise #1 - Day
The point of Day 1 is to revamp your love nest to make it more appealing. As much as I would LOVE for it to look like this - it just isn't in the cards:
So, I had to make do with what we've got...I did so much laundry it would choke a horse, but it needed to get done anyway. I put away the clutter, vacuumed the floor, dusted the dressers, hung new curtains (that The Man swore he'd get done...3 months ago) and moved all the water glasses to the kitchen sink.
It was nice to see the floor for once.
We have this set of sheets that we bought when we first got married. I thought they were fun because they have a black playboy logo on the corners of the pillow cases and The Man always wanted a set of silk sheets. We don't use them very often - of at all - because if you aren't careful with silk...you tend to go flying across the room (funny, but not safe)!
I decided to take the risk and change the sheets.
In addition, I placed a few candles throughout the room and turned the TV box to one of those romantic music channels, but turned the TV off (so there was no extra light coming from the TV).
Exercise #2 - Night
I have to admit, those slight changes definitely put a pep in my step and I really couldn't wait for The Man to get home. Once he did, we kissed the kids before putting them to bed and I tied a shirt around his eyes so he couldn't see. I sent him to the shower and I changed into something more "comfortable" (I don't know why they always say that in the movies...there is nothing "comfortable" about any lingerie I've ever worn...ever)
Regardless of comfort or not, the new mood in the room changed us both. It made us WANT to relax with each other again and we were able to connect on another level.
Until it came to the after-sex cuddling part.
Apparently the silk sheets were not a good idea...I know, because I AM the one who ended up on the floor...fail.
Who thought 2 people could move around SO much and be okay - but the minute I try to fix my pillow I go FLYING (yes, I was in the air) to the floor?! Not this girl!
In the end, we enjoyed each others company AND a laugh - even if it was at my expense.
**Want to see where this all began? Go to the Intro and read more**
I wrote this posting while participating in a blog campaign on behalf of K-Y® Brand and also received product samples to help facilitate my review.
Monday, August 29
Lesson #131 - Parents Understand Other Parents
My neighbor and I were sitting outside talking yesterday about those leashes that some parents put on their kids (I use one with Lulu)...and I recalled being very judgmental when I saw parents in public - being "bad" parents - that was before I had kids.
You've seen them:
- The Mom who sits on the sidelines of the play-place at the mall, almost asleep, while Little Jimmy runs around the place making the other kids miserable;
- The Dad who is sitting at a table stuffing fries down Julie Mae's throat;
- The Mom AND Dad who are pushing Suzy and Johnny in a stroller and not even paying attention to where they are going (almost hitting other people).
Heck, you might have even BEEN that parent at one point or another...and that is OKAY! I didn't understand that concept before having children. I could only look at them and say to myself, "Good grief, I will NEVER be that parent...ever!"
Oh, was I wrong.
What I didn't understand was that Little Jimmy's mom has been dealing with her son's ADHD for days on end, with no break, no vacation, and no sleep. She has been doing everything she can to keep him occupied while trying to get him accustomed to socializing with other children. She hasn't done anything for herself in years because she isn't able to sit down...ever. She would love to take a nap while Little Jimmy naps - but his mind is so incredibly active that he can't take a nap during the day
What I couldn't have known is Julie Mae had refused to eat any real food for the last week. She has a new little sibling - who was back home with mom - and decided to only drink from her sippy cup, just like the baby. When her parents can get her to eat, it might be as much as a 1/2 piece of cheese or 1 chicken nugget. This is the first time that she has had any interest in eating solid food - so dad jumped at the chance and bought her a large order of fries.
What I failed to notice about Suzy and Johnny was that they are twins. The joy of having children was multiplied by 2 for this family...and with 2 children comes 2 times the work. Mom and Dad haven't slept in weeks because as soon as one baby calms down - the other gets all revved up. They both get fed at the same time, and get changed at the same time, and skip naps at the same time, and scream at the same time. Both are colic-y, so neither parent has had a wink of sleep - literally - for months. This is the first time they've all ventured out of the house and the mall seemed like a great choice. Unfortunately their lack of sleep means they can't focus as well as I could - without kids.
I get it now and I feel their pain.
I see the looks I get when Lulu is running around like a crazy girl - I know I' m being judged when I buy 2 large fries at McDonald's (oh my gawd - is she going eat all that herself?!) - and when I raise my voice on occasion while Bubba screams in my ear, I can only imagine what Single Sally Homemaker is whispering to her girlfriends...
The one thing that I don't do anymore - is jump to a judgmental conclusion...because I have been there...and now, I understand.
You've seen them:
- The Mom who sits on the sidelines of the play-place at the mall, almost asleep, while Little Jimmy runs around the place making the other kids miserable;
- The Dad who is sitting at a table stuffing fries down Julie Mae's throat;
- The Mom AND Dad who are pushing Suzy and Johnny in a stroller and not even paying attention to where they are going (almost hitting other people).
Heck, you might have even BEEN that parent at one point or another...and that is OKAY! I didn't understand that concept before having children. I could only look at them and say to myself, "Good grief, I will NEVER be that parent...ever!"
Oh, was I wrong.
What I didn't understand was that Little Jimmy's mom has been dealing with her son's ADHD for days on end, with no break, no vacation, and no sleep. She has been doing everything she can to keep him occupied while trying to get him accustomed to socializing with other children. She hasn't done anything for herself in years because she isn't able to sit down...ever. She would love to take a nap while Little Jimmy naps - but his mind is so incredibly active that he can't take a nap during the day
What I couldn't have known is Julie Mae had refused to eat any real food for the last week. She has a new little sibling - who was back home with mom - and decided to only drink from her sippy cup, just like the baby. When her parents can get her to eat, it might be as much as a 1/2 piece of cheese or 1 chicken nugget. This is the first time that she has had any interest in eating solid food - so dad jumped at the chance and bought her a large order of fries.
What I failed to notice about Suzy and Johnny was that they are twins. The joy of having children was multiplied by 2 for this family...and with 2 children comes 2 times the work. Mom and Dad haven't slept in weeks because as soon as one baby calms down - the other gets all revved up. They both get fed at the same time, and get changed at the same time, and skip naps at the same time, and scream at the same time. Both are colic-y, so neither parent has had a wink of sleep - literally - for months. This is the first time they've all ventured out of the house and the mall seemed like a great choice. Unfortunately their lack of sleep means they can't focus as well as I could - without kids.
I get it now and I feel their pain.
I see the looks I get when Lulu is running around like a crazy girl - I know I' m being judged when I buy 2 large fries at McDonald's (oh my gawd - is she going eat all that herself?!) - and when I raise my voice on occasion while Bubba screams in my ear, I can only imagine what Single Sally Homemaker is whispering to her girlfriends...
The one thing that I don't do anymore - is jump to a judgmental conclusion...because I have been there...and now, I understand.
{Blog Series - KY Intimacy Challenge Intro}
*Note - I had originally posted this on 8/11, but after finding issues with blogger, I am re-posting the series in its entirety*
A few weeks ago I was given the opportunity to participate in the KY Intimacy Challenge. After thinking about it for all of 10 seconds, I agreed...I mean, who WOULDN'T want to put the personal and intimate details of their relationship on the internet for all to read?!
Wait, what?!
Every. Intimate. Detail.
Ok, maybe not EVERY detail...but enough to show what the results of each day's activities were and prove that this really does work.
The reason I decided this was a good idea is that I've been pregnant more in the last 3 years than not - YIKES! To be honest, my self confidence and that "sexy" feeling that I used to have...went down the drain once I gained those first 5 pounds in December 2008. I really needed something to help me connect with The Man again - like we were when we first met. It was a whirlwind romance and things happened SUPER fast - this challenge turned out to be a blessing for both of us!
The folks who created this experiment - over at Good In Bed - really know what they are talking about...so pay attention to the information they are giving you. Following each day per the booklet will help bring that spark back to your relationship.
So, follow along with me as The Man and I are put to the ultimate test...the results may surprise you!
Oh, and another thing...most of the couples who participated in this knew the details up front. I thought, though, that I might keep the details from The Man. Evil. I know. I think it added something extra to the results...and he especially didn't know I'd be writing about it! Then I don't think he would have agreed to "play" along!
Lucky for you...he had no idea!
I wrote this posting while participating in a blog campaign on behalf of K-Y® Brand and also received product samples to help facilitate my review. The products in no way altered my view of the challenge - only added to the experience.
A few weeks ago I was given the opportunity to participate in the KY Intimacy Challenge. After thinking about it for all of 10 seconds, I agreed...I mean, who WOULDN'T want to put the personal and intimate details of their relationship on the internet for all to read?!
Wait, what?!
Every. Intimate. Detail.
Ok, maybe not EVERY detail...but enough to show what the results of each day's activities were and prove that this really does work.
The reason I decided this was a good idea is that I've been pregnant more in the last 3 years than not - YIKES! To be honest, my self confidence and that "sexy" feeling that I used to have...went down the drain once I gained those first 5 pounds in December 2008. I really needed something to help me connect with The Man again - like we were when we first met. It was a whirlwind romance and things happened SUPER fast - this challenge turned out to be a blessing for both of us!
The folks who created this experiment - over at Good In Bed - really know what they are talking about...so pay attention to the information they are giving you. Following each day per the booklet will help bring that spark back to your relationship.
So, follow along with me as The Man and I are put to the ultimate test...the results may surprise you!
Oh, and another thing...most of the couples who participated in this knew the details up front. I thought, though, that I might keep the details from The Man. Evil. I know. I think it added something extra to the results...and he especially didn't know I'd be writing about it! Then I don't think he would have agreed to "play" along!
Lucky for you...he had no idea!
I wrote this posting while participating in a blog campaign on behalf of K-Y® Brand and also received product samples to help facilitate my review. The products in no way altered my view of the challenge - only added to the experience.
Thursday, August 25
Lesson #130 - I Might Be A Little Selfish
The Man has this thing about saving people. I don't know if it is just his personality or he genuinely thinks he can save everyone out there.
While I was pregnant with Lulu, The Man, my best friend and I were at a football game for The Man's birthday...or it might have been Christmas...I can't really remember (I blame mommy-brain...and the fact that it was more than 6 months ago). As we were leaving the stadium, we happened to pass a scuffle of sorts. Two younger men, for whatever reason, were pushing an older gentleman. We didn't know the circumstances and I really didn't want to know.
Had I not stopped him, The Man would have pushed his way into the middle of the action and tried to break things up. I tried to get him to understand that if something had happened to him - though I'm sure he would have been okay - I wouldn't have been able to jump into the mix. I am not one to keep my hands to myself and I don't avoid confrontation at all. However, I was preggo at the time...which doesn't bode well for hand-to-hand combat.
The Man reasoned that if it were his father, or my father, he would hope that some brave soul would prevent the situation from escalating.
I guess if my child was in danger, then I'd hope someone would step in and try to stop whatever was going on. I don't know what I'd think if MY child (or husband) was the one putting an end to the confrontation. Call me selfish, but I just wouldn't want my loved ones to willingly put themselves in danger for someone else.
While I was pregnant with Lulu, The Man, my best friend and I were at a football game for The Man's birthday...or it might have been Christmas...I can't really remember (I blame mommy-brain...and the fact that it was more than 6 months ago). As we were leaving the stadium, we happened to pass a scuffle of sorts. Two younger men, for whatever reason, were pushing an older gentleman. We didn't know the circumstances and I really didn't want to know.
Had I not stopped him, The Man would have pushed his way into the middle of the action and tried to break things up. I tried to get him to understand that if something had happened to him - though I'm sure he would have been okay - I wouldn't have been able to jump into the mix. I am not one to keep my hands to myself and I don't avoid confrontation at all. However, I was preggo at the time...which doesn't bode well for hand-to-hand combat.
The Man reasoned that if it were his father, or my father, he would hope that some brave soul would prevent the situation from escalating.
I guess if my child was in danger, then I'd hope someone would step in and try to stop whatever was going on. I don't know what I'd think if MY child (or husband) was the one putting an end to the confrontation. Call me selfish, but I just wouldn't want my loved ones to willingly put themselves in danger for someone else.
Wednesday, August 24
{Pour Your Heart Out - Dear High School Drama}
Are you linking up with Shell?? You should!!
Some of you may have read about my recent run-in with high school drama...but it gets better!!
Dear People Still Stuck In High School,
You know, you're right...I don't know what I was thinking when I got that Excel spreadsheet of our classmates information from the school.
Could it be that I wanted to update everyone's address and email so that when it WAS time to plan our upcoming reunion we would be able to get in touch with everyone?
No, that couldn't be it...
Could it be that I wanted ANY excuse to stay up until all hours of the night in order to make sure I haev contacted all 187 of our fellow classmates by any means necessary?
Yes, of course...I MUST be doing this for the FUN of it!!
Well, let me tell you that this is not the "fun" part...it is tedious and boring but someone has to do it - are one of you going to take over now?? What, you have jobs - and a social life - and don't want the burden?? Oh, so now it is okay that I'm doing this?
I got the ball rolling with everything in the hope that everyone would APPRECIATE the fact that someone - anyone - had started doing SOMETHING for our reunion. Apparently, that is not the case. Everyone is still stuck in high school - and that will never change.
Adults - not these people...they are acting more like children.
Now I could care less about attending a reunion with people who could treat someone like they have above.
It just seriously boggles my mind.
Last time I checked - you don't usually put "Senior Class President" on your resume...but maybe you did, I can't be certain.
Signed,
No Longer Willing To Help Ungrateful Children
Some of you may have read about my recent run-in with high school drama...but it gets better!!
Dear People Still Stuck In High School,
You know, you're right...I don't know what I was thinking when I got that Excel spreadsheet of our classmates information from the school.
Could it be that I wanted to update everyone's address and email so that when it WAS time to plan our upcoming reunion we would be able to get in touch with everyone?
No, that couldn't be it...
Could it be that I wanted ANY excuse to stay up until all hours of the night in order to make sure I haev contacted all 187 of our fellow classmates by any means necessary?
Yes, of course...I MUST be doing this for the FUN of it!!
Well, let me tell you that this is not the "fun" part...it is tedious and boring but someone has to do it - are one of you going to take over now?? What, you have jobs - and a social life - and don't want the burden?? Oh, so now it is okay that I'm doing this?
I got the ball rolling with everything in the hope that everyone would APPRECIATE the fact that someone - anyone - had started doing SOMETHING for our reunion. Apparently, that is not the case. Everyone is still stuck in high school - and that will never change.
Adults - not these people...they are acting more like children.
Now I could care less about attending a reunion with people who could treat someone like they have above.
It just seriously boggles my mind.
Last time I checked - you don't usually put "Senior Class President" on your resume...but maybe you did, I can't be certain.
Signed,
No Longer Willing To Help Ungrateful Children
{Wordless Wednesday - Riding With Mommy}
I used to ride horses...a lot...and show them. It was one of the best times in my young life.
Now I get to share my knowledge with Lulu...and it makes me so proud to see her face!
Now I get to share my knowledge with Lulu...and it makes me so proud to see her face!
Thursday, August 18
Lesson #129 - Family Cars Come In All Price Ranges
I was looking online the other day...but not for something that you can really buy online.
I know we can't afford it, but a new family car would be awesome to have right now. There is something rattling in my car - who knows what it is - and The Man's Hummer could use a lot of work. Mine needs new tired and his needs anti-freeze. All simple fixes, but having a NEW car would be so much more fun - don't you think?!
So, I chose THIS Bugatti as my top family car...
After looking at this beauty - don't you want one too??
How could you not?!
(Lets just ignore the $1.4 million price tag, mmmmmk)
Do you have a dream family car - what is it?
I know we can't afford it, but a new family car would be awesome to have right now. There is something rattling in my car - who knows what it is - and The Man's Hummer could use a lot of work. Mine needs new tired and his needs anti-freeze. All simple fixes, but having a NEW car would be so much more fun - don't you think?!
So, I chose THIS Bugatti as my top family car...
After looking at this beauty - don't you want one too??
How could you not?!
(Lets just ignore the $1.4 million price tag, mmmmmk)
Do you have a dream family car - what is it?
Wednesday, August 17
{Wordless Wednesday - Lazy Kids}
I take them out to have a good time...and this is what they do...go figure!!
Lesson #128 - Never Take Anything For Granted
I know the post title seems a little "generic" and might make you roll your eyes, but I can not tell a lie...sometimes I take my life for granted.
I wake up and open my eyes - never really appreciating that I can use all my 5 senses...instead, I groan because all I can hear are the kids crying because they are hungry and need to be changed.
I get in my car and yell - never really appreciating that I am blessed enough to own a car and can afford the gas that it requires...instead I am pulling my hair out because God forbid I have to sit in even a minute of traffic to get anywhere.
I get home and sit on the couch - never really appreciating that the house has AC when it is so hot outside ...instead I complain that I don't have a minute to myself after work before the kids want my attention until 10p at night when they go to sleep.
I forget that there are people in this world who are forced to flee the place that they call home in order to escape from being killed in the middle of the night. They trek across the sand in the heat with sips - not gallons - of water to split between their 10 children. Stopping for a nap means the possibility of having to choose to leave 2 of those children behind to slowly die because they have 8 other children to worry about getting to safety.
Those people - the ones who are put to the test on a daily basis - turn to God for strength...and they are at peace with the decisions they have had to make to survive.
I was raised in a Catholic home and went to church every Sunday as a kid, but I am not a deeply religious person. Honestly, if I was in their position, I don't know what I would do or how I would act. I can tell you that I most definitely would not be okay with leaving anyone behind...and if I had to make that tough choice, I would NOT be praising God for taking my loved one(s) "home".
Reading stories like this make me want to spend every waking moment that I can with my children...and appreciate the fact that I have not been forced to make those difficult decisions. I love my kiddos with all of my being...and after reading this, those little things that I stressed about before don't even deserve my attention now.
What do you take for granted?
I wake up and open my eyes - never really appreciating that I can use all my 5 senses...instead, I groan because all I can hear are the kids crying because they are hungry and need to be changed.
I get in my car and yell - never really appreciating that I am blessed enough to own a car and can afford the gas that it requires...instead I am pulling my hair out because God forbid I have to sit in even a minute of traffic to get anywhere.
I get home and sit on the couch - never really appreciating that the house has AC when it is so hot outside ...instead I complain that I don't have a minute to myself after work before the kids want my attention until 10p at night when they go to sleep.
I forget that there are people in this world who are forced to flee the place that they call home in order to escape from being killed in the middle of the night. They trek across the sand in the heat with sips - not gallons - of water to split between their 10 children. Stopping for a nap means the possibility of having to choose to leave 2 of those children behind to slowly die because they have 8 other children to worry about getting to safety.
Those people - the ones who are put to the test on a daily basis - turn to God for strength...and they are at peace with the decisions they have had to make to survive.
I was raised in a Catholic home and went to church every Sunday as a kid, but I am not a deeply religious person. Honestly, if I was in their position, I don't know what I would do or how I would act. I can tell you that I most definitely would not be okay with leaving anyone behind...and if I had to make that tough choice, I would NOT be praising God for taking my loved one(s) "home".
Reading stories like this make me want to spend every waking moment that I can with my children...and appreciate the fact that I have not been forced to make those difficult decisions. I love my kiddos with all of my being...and after reading this, those little things that I stressed about before don't even deserve my attention now.
What do you take for granted?
{Pour Your Heart Out - Dear Egg Donor}
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Dear Egg Donor,
I must have written this letter to you at least a dozen times. I wasn't even sure I should send you anything since I didn't know if you ever wanted to hear from me again. It has been quite a few years since we spoke on the phone, so I thought it was best for me to let you know what has been going on. I didn't come to this decision lightly and asked advice from my best friend, my Mother. You see, she is the woman who helped me through the rough times...and she is the one who made all my boo-boos better...and somehow she had the strength to advise me on how to go about contacting you again. That is the reason she holds the distinct honor of Mother.
When we spoke, I was a freshman in college. Always wanting to push forward, I ended up graduating in 3 years instead of 4 - or more like some students. Not only was I a full-time student, but I was also working full time. I didn't have to do it, but it built character and gave me my strong work ethic - something I can also credit to my Father.
Right before graduation, I purchased a townhouse to call my own - not too far from my college campus. I knew all of my working would pay off eventually! I wanted to stay in the area for work and renting would have cost much more a month. I still own it and even though it has become more of a burden than anything, it is still mine. Right now it is being rented by 3 young ladies who go to my alma mater...thankfully they are taking good care of the place!
During college I joined a sorority and realized my love for event planning. I met a woman who has turned out to be a wonderful friend and mentor. She is a small business owner and inspired me to do my own thing...which lead me to start my own event planning business. For the past 10 years I have been fortunate enough to do what I love and get paid to do it.
On January 31, 2009 I married the love of my life and my best friend. He is a wonderful husband - I am very blessed. Being a wedding planner gave us the ability to hire professionals who I had worked with before - and who had become personal friends to mine. It was definitely a day that I will never forget.
Later that year we welcomed our beautiful princess into the world! At 6lbs 10oz, she was such a little peanut - and still is, even days after turning 2 years old. She is extremely active and keeps me on my feet! {Lulu} loves being outside riding her bike or coloring with chalk on the sidewalk. When she was younger we took a "mommy and me" swim class...and boy does she love the water! Whether it is a bath or in the lake, she gets equally as excited. Now that she is older, she is getting into different activities. We just finished an 8-week session of gymnastics classes. Hopefully next year she'll be old enough to start cheerleading. She has the attitude to follow in my footsteps (I cheered all through school for 10+ years and then professionally for 3 years)!
This past December our family welcomed another addition - our handsome prince. His face looks just like mine as a baby - reddish hair and all! He is the opposite of his "little" big sister. {Bubba} was born at 8lbs 9oz - almost 2lbs heavier! We are certain he will take after his daddy and be a football player! I'm sure once he gets a little older, he can take a "daddy and me" class like his sister did with me. Him and his sister get along so well - it bring a tear to my eye and a smile on my face to watch them interact with each other. Days away from 8 months old, his Baptism will be this Sunday and he is growing more each day. Already cruising from couch to table and climbing up the stairs, he doesn't cease to amaze me!
Right now I am working for the CEO of a small business a few days a week. He is an amazing boss and we get along very well. It is nice to be able to work part-time so I can still spend plenty of time with the kids. {Lulu} can count to 10 now - forward and backward - and {Bubba} is babbling away trying to keep up with his sister.
So you see, a lot has happened in the years since we've spoken. It was hard not to call you back again, but the road goes both ways. You can't just pick up the phone and expect to call yourself "mom" - that isn't how this works. You said a lot of things - some of them were very hurtful. I'm sorry that you and your sister lost your mother, but making me feel guilty for not finding you before she passed won't bring her back. Also, just for future reference, telling me that your sister and your mother had gotten mad with you for giving me up isn't going to make me feel sorry for your situation.
In a way, I'm glad we are on opposite coasts. It makes it much more difficult for you to find me...and I like it that way. I've come a long way from where I used to be, emotionally, to where I am now. There were a lot of high points and an equal number of low points. I have made it through life - thus far - with only minor bruises along the way. My heart is still in tact and my spirit is a strong part of my hard-headed will to move on.
Don't apologize for giving me up...your words will fall on deaf ears.
Don't give praise for the highs in my life...praise is reserved for the friends and family who love me.
Don't feel sorry for the lows in my life...those feelings have no merit to me.
I didn't write this for you...I wrote this for me. I wanted to be able to tell you...show you...that life does go on. What happened all those years ago means nothing to me now. I still think about you every now and again, but I have my own life and that is where we stand. If it makes you feel better to call yourself "mom" or "mother" that is up to you. I know what it takes to earn that title. I have seen others, in the news - in my neighborhood - in the paper - on the Internet, who hold the title, but have nothing to show for the "work" they claim they've done. I can promise that you have not earned the title - not with me, not in my eyes...you will only ever be egg donor to me.
Signed,
Moved On
Dear Egg Donor,
I must have written this letter to you at least a dozen times. I wasn't even sure I should send you anything since I didn't know if you ever wanted to hear from me again. It has been quite a few years since we spoke on the phone, so I thought it was best for me to let you know what has been going on. I didn't come to this decision lightly and asked advice from my best friend, my Mother. You see, she is the woman who helped me through the rough times...and she is the one who made all my boo-boos better...and somehow she had the strength to advise me on how to go about contacting you again. That is the reason she holds the distinct honor of Mother.
When we spoke, I was a freshman in college. Always wanting to push forward, I ended up graduating in 3 years instead of 4 - or more like some students. Not only was I a full-time student, but I was also working full time. I didn't have to do it, but it built character and gave me my strong work ethic - something I can also credit to my Father.
Right before graduation, I purchased a townhouse to call my own - not too far from my college campus. I knew all of my working would pay off eventually! I wanted to stay in the area for work and renting would have cost much more a month. I still own it and even though it has become more of a burden than anything, it is still mine. Right now it is being rented by 3 young ladies who go to my alma mater...thankfully they are taking good care of the place!
During college I joined a sorority and realized my love for event planning. I met a woman who has turned out to be a wonderful friend and mentor. She is a small business owner and inspired me to do my own thing...which lead me to start my own event planning business. For the past 10 years I have been fortunate enough to do what I love and get paid to do it.
On January 31, 2009 I married the love of my life and my best friend. He is a wonderful husband - I am very blessed. Being a wedding planner gave us the ability to hire professionals who I had worked with before - and who had become personal friends to mine. It was definitely a day that I will never forget.
Later that year we welcomed our beautiful princess into the world! At 6lbs 10oz, she was such a little peanut - and still is, even days after turning 2 years old. She is extremely active and keeps me on my feet! {Lulu} loves being outside riding her bike or coloring with chalk on the sidewalk. When she was younger we took a "mommy and me" swim class...and boy does she love the water! Whether it is a bath or in the lake, she gets equally as excited. Now that she is older, she is getting into different activities. We just finished an 8-week session of gymnastics classes. Hopefully next year she'll be old enough to start cheerleading. She has the attitude to follow in my footsteps (I cheered all through school for 10+ years and then professionally for 3 years)!
This past December our family welcomed another addition - our handsome prince. His face looks just like mine as a baby - reddish hair and all! He is the opposite of his "little" big sister. {Bubba} was born at 8lbs 9oz - almost 2lbs heavier! We are certain he will take after his daddy and be a football player! I'm sure once he gets a little older, he can take a "daddy and me" class like his sister did with me. Him and his sister get along so well - it bring a tear to my eye and a smile on my face to watch them interact with each other. Days away from 8 months old, his Baptism will be this Sunday and he is growing more each day. Already cruising from couch to table and climbing up the stairs, he doesn't cease to amaze me!
Right now I am working for the CEO of a small business a few days a week. He is an amazing boss and we get along very well. It is nice to be able to work part-time so I can still spend plenty of time with the kids. {Lulu} can count to 10 now - forward and backward - and {Bubba} is babbling away trying to keep up with his sister.
So you see, a lot has happened in the years since we've spoken. It was hard not to call you back again, but the road goes both ways. You can't just pick up the phone and expect to call yourself "mom" - that isn't how this works. You said a lot of things - some of them were very hurtful. I'm sorry that you and your sister lost your mother, but making me feel guilty for not finding you before she passed won't bring her back. Also, just for future reference, telling me that your sister and your mother had gotten mad with you for giving me up isn't going to make me feel sorry for your situation.
In a way, I'm glad we are on opposite coasts. It makes it much more difficult for you to find me...and I like it that way. I've come a long way from where I used to be, emotionally, to where I am now. There were a lot of high points and an equal number of low points. I have made it through life - thus far - with only minor bruises along the way. My heart is still in tact and my spirit is a strong part of my hard-headed will to move on.
Don't apologize for giving me up...your words will fall on deaf ears.
Don't give praise for the highs in my life...praise is reserved for the friends and family who love me.
Don't feel sorry for the lows in my life...those feelings have no merit to me.
I didn't write this for you...I wrote this for me. I wanted to be able to tell you...show you...that life does go on. What happened all those years ago means nothing to me now. I still think about you every now and again, but I have my own life and that is where we stand. If it makes you feel better to call yourself "mom" or "mother" that is up to you. I know what it takes to earn that title. I have seen others, in the news - in my neighborhood - in the paper - on the Internet, who hold the title, but have nothing to show for the "work" they claim they've done. I can promise that you have not earned the title - not with me, not in my eyes...you will only ever be egg donor to me.
Signed,
Moved On
Tuesday, August 16
Lesson #127 - Investment Properties Are Never An Investment
Before I was ever thinking about getting married, I purchased a townhouse. It was 2005, prices were on the higher side and I needed a place to live. It seemed like a great idea...so I dove right in!
It is now 6 years later and that place has become more of a headache than anything else.
When The Man and I got married we decided that we'd live in his casa since it was bigger and would be better when the time came for us to have kids. The only option was to hold onto the house and wait it out until the market bounced back and we weren't so upside down (the house is worth $230k and it was bought for $305k)...yuck!
We are now renting it out which comes with its own challenges. We were lucky enough to find great renters who are college students at the local university. Now that it is summer, there is only 1 girl there instead of the usual 3 girls...which makes getting things done more difficult since there is only ever 1 being home.
I got an email the other day saying the outlets on the 1st floor were going out when it rains...awesome. Now there is one more thing to pay for that we can't afford. I hope this isn't going to cost a ton of money!
I can't wait until we are able to sell that place and just be rid of it!!
So...how many of YOU have made an extremely LARGE purchase and now have a bit of buyers' remorse?!?!
It is now 6 years later and that place has become more of a headache than anything else.
When The Man and I got married we decided that we'd live in his casa since it was bigger and would be better when the time came for us to have kids. The only option was to hold onto the house and wait it out until the market bounced back and we weren't so upside down (the house is worth $230k and it was bought for $305k)...yuck!
We are now renting it out which comes with its own challenges. We were lucky enough to find great renters who are college students at the local university. Now that it is summer, there is only 1 girl there instead of the usual 3 girls...which makes getting things done more difficult since there is only ever 1 being home.
I got an email the other day saying the outlets on the 1st floor were going out when it rains...awesome. Now there is one more thing to pay for that we can't afford. I hope this isn't going to cost a ton of money!
I can't wait until we are able to sell that place and just be rid of it!!
So...how many of YOU have made an extremely LARGE purchase and now have a bit of buyers' remorse?!?!
Monday, August 15
Lesson #126 - Fat Is Not So Fabulous
The Man decided a few months back that he would be going on a new diet. His plans of following the "Primal Blueprint" were harder than I expected. After having 2 chitlins, though, I was desperate to find something that would work for me in terms of losing the weight.
I don't know if you've ever heard of this "Primal Blueprint" but it is actually quite the interesting diet plan. I apologize, it is less of a diet and more of a lifestyle. There are books on the topic, blogs, articles and a host of other information dedicated to the topic.
Now, I haven't read much about it - yet...but my basic understanding is that you eat as much as you want in terms of fat and calories. The big no-no here are carbs...so we have thrown out all breads, pasta and most of the sugar (I mean, I don't want the kiddos to have to suffer...not being bribed or anything).
So far, so good I suppose. The Man has lost almost 10 lbs and I am down about 5 lbs (it has only been about a month for me so far...and I cheat sometimes). We will see how this whole lifestyle goes, but if it can help me take another 30 lbs off - then I'll owe it my 3rd born (I'm kinda attached to my first 2)!
How about you out there in bloggy-land?! Any diets work/not work for you?? Did you pair it with exercise or was a meal modification good enough for your weight loss??
I don't know if you've ever heard of this "Primal Blueprint" but it is actually quite the interesting diet plan. I apologize, it is less of a diet and more of a lifestyle. There are books on the topic, blogs, articles and a host of other information dedicated to the topic.
Now, I haven't read much about it - yet...but my basic understanding is that you eat as much as you want in terms of fat and calories. The big no-no here are carbs...so we have thrown out all breads, pasta and most of the sugar (I mean, I don't want the kiddos to have to suffer...not being bribed or anything).
So far, so good I suppose. The Man has lost almost 10 lbs and I am down about 5 lbs (it has only been about a month for me so far...and I cheat sometimes). We will see how this whole lifestyle goes, but if it can help me take another 30 lbs off - then I'll owe it my 3rd born (I'm kinda attached to my first 2)!
How about you out there in bloggy-land?! Any diets work/not work for you?? Did you pair it with exercise or was a meal modification good enough for your weight loss??
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Sunday, August 14
{Recipe Sunday - Creamy Potatoes}
I LOVE me some mashed potatoes, which I can't eat anymore thanks to a new diet I'm on :(
When I do make them, though, I use heavy whipping cream - instead of regular milk and butter - to make them even creamier.
I also put a bit of Mexican chili powder and paprika for a little kick!
I'm not giving exact measurements for this recipe because everyone is a little different. Some like their taters a little more moist and others like them a little more dry...so its all about each person for this one!
DELISH!
When I do make them, though, I use heavy whipping cream - instead of regular milk and butter - to make them even creamier.
I also put a bit of Mexican chili powder and paprika for a little kick!
I'm not giving exact measurements for this recipe because everyone is a little different. Some like their taters a little more moist and others like them a little more dry...so its all about each person for this one!
DELISH!
Wednesday, August 10
{Wordless Wednesday - New Friend}
An old friend of mine and I were able to get together with our kiddos...and out of our friendship, came a new one...for our girls!
We had just gotten there and they were already trying to break out!
Forget the kiddie pool...they wanted to go on the water slides!
The Babe wanted to have a serious conversation...Lil B had no interest
They loved playing with that little spout
Big hug
New friends...they are too cute!!
Tuesday, August 9
Lesson #125 - High School Should Stay Right Where We Left It
So, I'm not sure what possessed me (and I use possessed because I can't think of anything more severe), but a few weeks back I sent an email on facebook to my old high school. One of my major milestone reunions is coming up next year and I hadn't heard anything about what would be happening. I got a response from the new Director of Development...she was 2 years my senior while we were in high school.
In her initial email, she stated that she had been looking for someone to spearhead this venture...so, of course, I said I would do it (in all of my spare time)!! We set up a time to meet while I'd be home visiting my parents and all was well.
When I showed up at our meeting, she handed me an excel spreadsheet with the names and addresses of those same 157 of my classmates who I grew to know from high school. She asked if I could get updated contact information for all of them - not hard at all (yeah, ok). It was then suggested that I create a group on facebook because that was how she had gotten the most information when she planned things the year before.
A group was created and people were added. So far there are 106 out of our 157 classmates, which is quite good in only 2 days.
I then proceeded to email each person separately to ask them for an updated mailing and email address in order to update our class roster. Most people didn't have a problem sending me information and some were even thanking me for keeping track of everyone's information.
Until our Senior Class President responded to my message...
Hey! I thought as senior class president the reunion planning was my job and I had actually already spoken to (person at high school) as well about 3 months ago. So I was planning to organize this. If you're interested in doing it, that's great since I live in California now, but it's still kind of odd that you took the lead without asking anyone who was involved back in high school. I already had plans for the weekend and would like to be involved in most of the planning. So let me know what your thoughts are.
Thanks,
Still Stuck in High School
Seriously?!?! When I spoke with our contact in development, your name came up Senior Class President and she never even mentioned that you had expressed interest in doing any of this...
Maybe I should have just let things alone and forgot all about high school!!
What has been your experience with high school reunions?? Did you take an active role in planning, just attended, or said forget the whole thing and left your high school memories in the past??
In her initial email, she stated that she had been looking for someone to spearhead this venture...so, of course, I said I would do it (in all of my spare time)!! We set up a time to meet while I'd be home visiting my parents and all was well.
When I showed up at our meeting, she handed me an excel spreadsheet with the names and addresses of those same 157 of my classmates who I grew to know from high school. She asked if I could get updated contact information for all of them - not hard at all (yeah, ok). It was then suggested that I create a group on facebook because that was how she had gotten the most information when she planned things the year before.
A group was created and people were added. So far there are 106 out of our 157 classmates, which is quite good in only 2 days.
I then proceeded to email each person separately to ask them for an updated mailing and email address in order to update our class roster. Most people didn't have a problem sending me information and some were even thanking me for keeping track of everyone's information.
Until our Senior Class President responded to my message...
Hey! I thought as senior class president the reunion planning was my job and I had actually already spoken to (person at high school) as well about 3 months ago. So I was planning to organize this. If you're interested in doing it, that's great since I live in California now, but it's still kind of odd that you took the lead without asking anyone who was involved back in high school. I already had plans for the weekend and would like to be involved in most of the planning. So let me know what your thoughts are.
Thanks,
Still Stuck in High School
Seriously?!?! When I spoke with our contact in development, your name came up Senior Class President and she never even mentioned that you had expressed interest in doing any of this...
Maybe I should have just let things alone and forgot all about high school!!
What has been your experience with high school reunions?? Did you take an active role in planning, just attended, or said forget the whole thing and left your high school memories in the past??
Monday, August 8
{An Introduction To The Fab-u-lous ME!!}
WELCOME one and all to my little space on the web!
I think my Blogger profile says it best:
I went from "in a relationship" to "single" to "pregnant" to "married" to "mommy" in the matter of a year. You'd be surprised how quickly life can turn around on you - and most of the time it happens when you aren't paying attention! Come on by and take a seat...learn from me by reading my "Lessons Learned!"
And now...the answers to those fabulous 5 questions:
1.) What's your favorite memory from Summer 2011?
I don't show pictures of me or The Man...for personal reasons...so I can't show my favorite memory from this summer. I CAN show my second favorite memory though:
2.) What's your dream summer vacation?
I would love to take The Man on a honeymoon. Money was tight and I was pregnant so we decided against going on a honeymoon. My preference would be Tahiti or Belize...but I know that The Man would much rather go to Ireland. All of those are out of the question due to cost, but I have been planning a surprise trip for our 4 year anniversary. I would wait until our 5 year, but by then the kids will be old enough for us to start going on family vacations...so I want to get ours done first.
3.) What's your favorite thing to do in the summer?
I really enjoy going to the beach, boating, fishing, crabbing or anything else I can do on the water. It is really funny, though, because The Man hates sand and anything having to do with sand...unless he is behind the wheel of his truck and is 4-wheeling.
4.) What's your "blog goal" for 2011?
I really enjoy doing reviews and giveaways...for 2011 I would really love to be able to do more product reviews and giveaways for all my followers...and grow my follows to 500 by the end of the year (here is hoping)!
5.) Let's hear the story behind your blog title! :)
I have learned a lot if valuable and interesting lessons in life...and life continues to throw some very humorous events my way all the time. After having The Babe, my mind was not retaining as much information as it used to...and now, after Mr. Squiggles, it is even worse! I blog my "Lessons Learned" in the hope that my stories can provide some sort of humor to others.
{Giveaway Winner}
Thanks to everyone who entered the giveaway from My Baby Clothes Boutique!! I am happy to announce that TJ and Amy - #61 - has won the giveaway and a $25 credit towards new clothes!!
My next giveaway will be coming up soon!
My next giveaway will be coming up soon!
Sunday, August 7
{Recipe Sunday - Yummy Chicken Legs}
The Man frequently accuses me of making the same thing over and over...this is not true at all! In fact, I am good about making different things for The Man - since he HATES (and by HATES, I mean with a passion) eating the same thing twice! Hopefully this EASY chicken recipe will put some excitement into your dinner!
Yummy Chicken
6-8 chicken legs (I usually buy those super-duper family packs when they're on sale)
garlic salt
extra virgin olive oil
2 tablespoons butter
Heat oven to 350 degrees. Season the chicken legs with garlic salt (or garlic powder and salt, if you want more control of the seasonings) and put aside. Heat oil and butter in a deep pan just in case it starts to pop up at you. Once hot, place chicken legs in and rotate until brown on all sides. Place all legs into a glass dish - I use a 9x13 to ensure enough space - and put into oven. Leave them be for 20-30 minutes and ta-da...yummy chicken!!
Yummy Chicken
6-8 chicken legs (I usually buy those super-duper family packs when they're on sale)
garlic salt
extra virgin olive oil
2 tablespoons butter
Heat oven to 350 degrees. Season the chicken legs with garlic salt (or garlic powder and salt, if you want more control of the seasonings) and put aside. Heat oil and butter in a deep pan just in case it starts to pop up at you. Once hot, place chicken legs in and rotate until brown on all sides. Place all legs into a glass dish - I use a 9x13 to ensure enough space - and put into oven. Leave them be for 20-30 minutes and ta-da...yummy chicken!!
Friday, August 5
Lesson #124 - The One About My Daughter and Her "Blaangy"
I had a parenting FAIL the other...but in my defense, it had been a long day.
As I walked through the door after work my in-laws proceeded to tell me that The Babe had pulled off her diaper and her pellet poop went everywhere...including on her blankie.
Now, my daughter shares a special bond with her blankie...and I know this. But when they told me it was in the wash and needed to go into the dryer still - my brain was on another planet. The Man and I were getting The Babe ready for bed around 11p when he asked (really, whispered) the million dollar question -
"Where is her blankie?"
CRAP!!!
I forgot to put it in the dryer...how could I DO that?!?!
I had to think...and FAST...about what to give her a replacement.
Into the linen closet I went and found a similar feeling blanket that I could give her...in the dark...and MAYBE she wouldn't realize it wasn't her blankie. Alas, even in the dark she knew something wasn't right...ugh!!
"BLAANGY...BLAANGY...BLAANGY" (my heart was literally breaking for her)
The Man and I left her in the room to cry herself to sleep and I sprung into action...racing down the stairs I went (and falling on my fat bum in the process) to the laundry room to remedy the situation. I threw the beloved piece of fabric into the dryer and pushed the button...
Now, we wait...
By 1a the fabric was finally dry...and I wondered to myself if I should go upstairs and give it to The Babe while she slept. I went against my better judgment (and strong advice from The Man) and headed into her room with "blaangy" in tow. She woke up briefly, but I was able to put her back to sleep with no issues.
The next morning when The Man and I walked in to get our chitlins...The Babe's smile had never been so big...she was so happy to have her "blaangy" back.
Maybe it wasn't a parenting FAIL after all!!!
Any recent parenting FAILs out there??
As I walked through the door after work my in-laws proceeded to tell me that The Babe had pulled off her diaper and her pellet poop went everywhere...including on her blankie.
Now, my daughter shares a special bond with her blankie...and I know this. But when they told me it was in the wash and needed to go into the dryer still - my brain was on another planet. The Man and I were getting The Babe ready for bed around 11p when he asked (really, whispered) the million dollar question -
"Where is her blankie?"
CRAP!!!
I forgot to put it in the dryer...how could I DO that?!?!
I had to think...and FAST...about what to give her a replacement.
Into the linen closet I went and found a similar feeling blanket that I could give her...in the dark...and MAYBE she wouldn't realize it wasn't her blankie. Alas, even in the dark she knew something wasn't right...ugh!!
"BLAANGY...BLAANGY...BLAANGY" (my heart was literally breaking for her)
The Man and I left her in the room to cry herself to sleep and I sprung into action...racing down the stairs I went (and falling on my fat bum in the process) to the laundry room to remedy the situation. I threw the beloved piece of fabric into the dryer and pushed the button...
Now, we wait...
By 1a the fabric was finally dry...and I wondered to myself if I should go upstairs and give it to The Babe while she slept. I went against my better judgment (and strong advice from The Man) and headed into her room with "blaangy" in tow. She woke up briefly, but I was able to put her back to sleep with no issues.
The next morning when The Man and I walked in to get our chitlins...The Babe's smile had never been so big...she was so happy to have her "blaangy" back.
Maybe it wasn't a parenting FAIL after all!!!
Any recent parenting FAILs out there??
Wednesday, August 3
{Wordless Wednesday - Water Park}
This past weekend I was able to catch up with a high school friend whom I haven't seen in 10 years. We both have chitlins now and it was so great to be able to meet up and enjoy the day with great conversation, fatty foods and a whole lot of water!!!
Riding Shamu...or some other whale-looking thing!
She totally knew I was taking pictures!
Mr. Squiggles was sleeping on the job!
My girlfriend made her a bunch of those cute flower clips...and let her put in the pigtails
All tuckered out after a long day in the sun!
Monday, August 1
{Final Days - MBCB Giveaway)
The FINAL DAYS of the My Baby Clothes giveaway are here!!
Everything ends on Friday, 8/5 at NOON EST
Want all the details?? GO HERE!
Everything ends on Friday, 8/5 at NOON EST
Want all the details?? GO HERE!
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